tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356250942987617046.post5208863986798145158..comments2023-07-07T02:57:41.635-07:00Comments on ASecretLife: Cathy - vanilla and BFEUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356250942987617046.post-62859415858166216132008-09-30T09:14:00.000-07:002008-09-30T09:14:00.000-07:00Mmmm..sometimes simple, basic, straight-up sex wit...Mmmm..sometimes simple, basic, straight-up sex with no frills is the most appealing thing in the world, isn't it? Sounds like you enjoyed yourselves, which is all that really matters. Who cares if it was vanilla?!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356250942987617046.post-3361066201904921072008-09-27T14:15:00.000-07:002008-09-27T14:15:00.000-07:00What I said to Cathy was only about 25% true. Ther...What I said to Cathy was only about 25% true. There is someone, but it's a situation that for various reasons (one of them geographical) isn't going to advance very far in the next 6 months. Cathy figured out pretty quickly that it was an excuse, not a reason.<BR/><BR/>As for monogamy, I like it in principle but I very much doubt that I could ever really do it. On the other hand, I really hate lying. So I'd need some sort of negotiated space to do stuff in.<BR/><BR/>Luckily (or perhaps unluckily) this potential love interest knows all my murky secrets.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07666423284605861228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-356250942987617046.post-71417011413107353452008-09-27T14:07:00.000-07:002008-09-27T14:07:00.000-07:00I remember a quote by Dita von Teese that goes alo...I remember a quote by Dita von Teese that goes along the lines of, "I like vanilla sex as much as the next girl," and she's oh so right. <BR/><BR/>I'm interested you called it off with Cathy because you were getting serious with someone else. What's your view on monogamy in a long-term relationship, or even when you think someone might develop into a long-term partner?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com